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New Law Firm Job? Overcome Performance Anxiety With a Learning Mindset

By Keith Rollag

The interviews and video calls are behind you. You’ve accepted the position and joined your new law firm. You’re excited by the opportunity but worry about your initial performance. You promoted your skills, experience and expertise pretty strongly in the interviews. Will you be able to live up to expectations? Here’s how a learning mindset can help you take on your new job responsibilities with confidence.

We’ve All Felt Performance Anxiety in New Situations

A little nervousness is probably a good thing, as it keeps us focused and alert. But if there’s too much stress, you can undermine your productivity, success and satisfaction in your new role.

What can you do to mitigate that feeling that you’re “just not good enough” and tackle your new legal responsibilities with confidence?

We’re often our own worst enemies when we’re new. One reason for performance anxiety is the mindset you bring into a new situation. Carol Dweck, Heidi Grant Halvorson and other researchers have shown that our in-going mindset has a huge impact on how we anticipate and experience new situations. Simply put:

People often focus more on performing than learning in new situations.

Or, as Halvorson puts it, we focus more on “being good” than “getting better.”

Performance Mindset vs. Learning Mindset

Obviously, you want to do well in your new job, but focusing too much on performing can cause you to approach the initial legal work as if it’s a make-or-break test of your natural skills and abilities. You’ll either succeed spectacularly or fail miserably. No pressure there.

With a performance mindset, we also tend to:

  • Focus on rapidly completing new tasks instead of building new relationships. In our haste to accomplish things, we may not take the time to establish the connections that make us successful over the long term.
  • Try too hard to make a great first impression. Striving to be either the smartest or most loyal person in the office often makes us look either arrogant or like a suck-up.
  • Be reluctant to ask questions that might make us look bad. Instead, we waste time with endless Internet searches or, worse yet, rely exclusively on our past experience. Most of the time, the information we really need to be effective is inside the heads of our officemates.
  • See co-workers as evaluators first, collaborators second. It’s hard to relax when you think you’re being judged all the time.
  • Avoid taking risks and making mistakes. In the heat of the moment, we often convince ourselves the safest way to perform is by not performing at all.

All of that just adds unnecessary pressure that undermines confidence and removes all the fun and excitement of the new role.

Fortunately, researchers have found there is a better way.

A simple shift to seeing new situations as learning opportunities instead of performance tests can reap huge benefits. More specifically, a learning-oriented mindset:

  • Gives you more energy and enthusiasm for your new job. You likely sought this new role because it could provide you with more challenges and growth. Embrace and emphasize the excitement of discovery over the stress of performance, and you should enjoy your new job more.
  • Diverts your attention away from your performance fears. If you’re mentally focused on learning from others, you’ve got less mental “bandwidth” to worry about how you’re doing.
  • Helps reframe mistakes and stumbles as just part of the learning process. You’ll stress over them less if you see mistakes more as helpful feedback than the “big reveal” of your less-than-perfect abilities. 
  • Makes a great first impression. Approaching people as learning opportunities causes you to ask questions and listen intently, which shows deference, respect and humility. These are far more effective at making a good first impression than trying to prove you’re the most successful person in the room.

How to Embrace a Learning Mindset

How can you approach your new job with a learning mindset? Here are a few suggestions:

  1. Identify what you want to learn from your new role. What skills do you want to improve? What new knowledge do you want to acquire? How will these help you achieve your career goals? The more you can make these salient and important at work, the more you will focus on learning over performing.
  2. Approach others as teachers, not evaluators. Ask yourself what you can learn from others at the firm. Who can help me get up to speed quickly? Who can connect me with critical resources or help me make sense of organizational dynamics and politics?
  3. See every experience as a learning opportunity. Whether things go well or poorly, reflect on what you learned and how you can do better the next time.
  4. Rehearse. Mental rehearsals are almost as good as the real thing. If you’re nervous about an upcoming performance, practice in front of the mirror or in the car on your way to work. Anticipate what might happen and experiment with what you might say or do in response.    
  5. Enter new situations thinking “I’m excited” instead of “I am calm.” Harvard researcher Alison Wood Brooks has found this approach helps people enter new performance situations with an opportunity mindset instead of a threat-oriented mindset.

The more you approach your new position as an exciting learning opportunity instead of an endless “Chopped” performance, the more comfortable, confident and successful you’ll be.

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Categories: Legal Career Development, New Lawyers, Professional Development, You At Work
Originally published November 20, 2022
Last updated December 16, 2022
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Keith Rollag Keith Rollag

Keith Rollag is a leadership professor, management consultant, and formerly Dean of the F.W. Olin Graduate School of Business at Babson College. His teaching focuses on organizational behavior, teamwork and leadership, and his research focuses primarily on newcomer socialization and training, organizational culture, social networks and leadership development. He is the author of  “What to Do When You’re New: How to Be Comfortable, Confident, and Successful in New Situations, ” named one of the “10 Best Books of 2015.” Follow him @KeithRollag and on LinkedIn.

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